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Talking To Your Child About Their Eating Disorder


Have you ever wondered if your teenager has an eating disorder? Diagnosing one can be difficult, since the signs and symptoms are vague and they develop gradually. In many cases, those with an eating disorder can be sly or discreet about their habits or tendencies, making it even more difficult to approach the subject. Despite the difficulty of approaching your son or daughter on the topic, it’s important to intervene as soon as possible.

A Person Might Have an Eating Disorder If…

* They experience changes in weight loss or gain
* They lose their appetite
* They withdraw socially
* They become generally disinterested

The Talk

If any or all of the various symptoms seem to be afflicting your child, it’s possible that they may have an eating disorder. In this case, it’s a good idea to be frank. A good way to start a conversation might be after a bathroom visit – however, a less confrontational discussion might occur simply when the topic is on your mind. It’s important to share your thoughts and feelings with your child in a way that’s loving and calm, not in a way that exhibits judgment. Describe what you’ve noticed, what you’re worried about and other thoughts on your mind. Be prepared to make appointments with your child’s pediatrician or a therapist in order to evaluate their condition.


Remember that your child having an eating disorder is not a reflection on, your family or your parenting. Instead, eating disorders often begin with a dissatisfied personal body image. There are a number of reasons why a child might have a distorted body image, which may be influenced by academic or social standing.

It’s important to remember that eating disorders can’t simply be wished away or “solved” by one heartfelt conversation. The best thing you can do you for child is begin a discussion today.

Source: The Huffington Post