You know the obvious things to watch out for, right? Basically, anything that relates to how he or she looks is taboo. For example, avoid:
• Gym memberships or workout clothes/shoes
• Clothes
• Food (even if it is a favorite)
• Scale (Who would give a scale for Christmas? But, in case you were thinking about it, don’t)
Ideas that would be safer include:
• Anything that relates to a hobby he or she enjoys or has mentioned wanting to do, particularly classes or lessons
• A journal
• Music, itunes gift card, ipod add-ons
• Inspirational books (but not related to the ED)
• Gifts that would help relieve stress (Here are some ideas: cell phone minutes so he or she can call for support, a pet if it’s appropriate the new owner wants one, gift cards for basic needs if money is a concern.)
• Magazine subscriptions (but be wary of which titles, some will be triggers)
• Soothing spa products, (like luxury bath products) or a spa gift certificate for a mani/pedi (this may not be appropriate for everyone)
• Table-top water fountain (these make me have to pee, but some people love them)